Community Celebrates 133 Years at Bethabara Methodist Homecoming

This past Sunday, members of the community gathered at Bethabara Methodist Church to celebrate its annual homecoming, marking a cherished tradition that draws former congregants back to their spiritual roots. The event not only emphasizes the church’s significance in the lives of its members but also reflects on the history and enduring spirit of the church over its remarkable 133 years of service.

A Time to Reconnect

For many, homecoming represents a special occasion to reconnect with friends and relatives. Mac McPhail, who grew up in Sampson County, shared his reflections on the importance of this event. “Homecoming is a time when the church family comes back to the church of their youth,” he noted. Attendees look forward to reuniting with familiar faces and sharing stories from their past.

The day typically begins with a worship service, referred to as “preaching,” which sets the tone for the festivities. Following the service, congregants partake in a communal meal, a highlight for many. Long tables filled with homemade dishes grace the church grounds, showcasing a variety of traditional foods. McPhail reminisced about the anticipation of the homecoming dinner, recalling how family members would bring their best recipes, including his father’s famous fried chicken.

“I always kept an eye on where Aunt Lettie placed her cake,” McPhail said, emphasizing the importance of food in creating a warm and inviting atmosphere. For many, the meal serves as a heartwarming reminder of family traditions and shared experiences.

Honoring the Past

While the joy of reunion is palpable, homecoming also serves as a poignant reminder of those who are no longer present. McPhail reflected on the absence of many childhood friends and church members who have passed away. “Most of the adults who were at the church when I was growing up are no longer here,” he stated, highlighting the bittersweet nature of the gathering.

The legacy of L.F. McPhail, Mac’s father, resonates deeply within the congregation. Having devoted his life to the church, he was known for his unwavering support and commitment. “He just wanted the little church to keep going,” McPhail recalled, illustrating his father’s dedication to fostering a sense of community among the congregation.

Despite challenges faced by many smaller rural churches today, including shifts in demographics and an aging congregation, Bethabara Methodist Church continues to thrive. With a history spanning over a century, the church remains a beacon of hope and faith for its members, ensuring that its mission endures through changing times.

For many, including McPhail, the church played a pivotal role in shaping their values and beliefs. “Looking back, I realize what an important part Bethabara had in laying the foundation for my life and faith,” he concluded, encapsulating the profound emotional connection many feel during homecoming.

As the community looks forward to future gatherings, the enduring spirit of Bethabara Methodist Church remains a testament to its resilience and the strength of its congregation. For those who wish to delve deeper into McPhail’s reflections, his book, “Wandering Thoughts from a Wondering Mind,” is available for purchase online.